Reddit Boyfriend, You Need To Dump Your Vegan Girlfriend

Reddit users are always welcome to contact me to see if I am there. The wrong thing to do Certain social situations.

These Reddit posts are called “Am I The A**hole? (AITA)” and the users are asking the Reddit community if they are — well — an a-hole.

Today I came across this. Reddit post Those are my thoughts. “AITA for telling GF that I will not stop using butter?”

Right off the bat, that title made me think he’s not an a-hole. Perhaps he’s doing something crazy. Maybe he’s using the butter for all the wrong reasons.

Let’s review what he says, and then I will make a judgment. Here’s the post:

GF was a vegetarian at the time we met and now he is completely vegan.

I am very conscious about meat and only eat it when I’m on vacation. My GF makes it a point to avoid animal products. However, I don’t mind eating locally sourced meat. I also enjoy eggs from my backyard chickens, and butter for cooking. I used to cook meals together with GF. GF refuses to eat my meals because I use butter most of the time.

I told her if she didn’t like what I made she doesn’t have to eat it, but I feel like I compromised a lot in order to satisfy her lifestyle, and it’s not fair for her to expect me to make completely vegan meals.

She said that she doesn’t respect my choice to be vegan. She says she can’t make me vegan, but the least i could do is prepare vegan meals. I told her that I sacrificed eating lot’s of animal products i enjoy to respect her, while she hasn’t done anything for me. I ate my dishes only because butter was the only animal product.

I told her I am making meals with no meat, no eggs, but I don’t like the vegan substitute for butter when I make my creamy dishes. Pot pie (with fake poultry). I am trying to accommodate but it feels like i’m the only one giving anything up

AITA?

You are not an a-hole. 

The vegan here is the a-hole — which tends to always be the case. They’re very demanding. They decide they want to live a certain lifestyle, then it becomes a cult, and they try to force everybody to go along with it — especially those closest to them.

By the way, it’s great that you’ve decided to respect her so much by eating more of these substitute drops of crap. It’s better to eat real food than these vegan alternatives if you really look at what they contain. It’s far healthier.

The real question is: What is she doing for me out of respect? She may value you, but she might value you. She might make you a chicken recipe, but she doesn’t value your time. If she asks you to prepare her vegan meals, will she ever prepare you a carnivore dish?

Wouldn’t she probably say ‘Oh, I don’t want to do that because I have now decided that veganism is my new religion — and by religion, I mean cult.’ I think she would.

So it doesn’t really make sense for her to demand that you not consume butter — which, by the way, is a healthy fat that is good for you.

I don’t know the vegan rules. However, I know that there are many. I also know that if she continues being this strict vegan, then she’s probably going to end up sick because we are meant to eat meat.

I’m sure I’m going to get a lot of bad vegan people messaging me, saying terrible vegan things.

When I take on vegans, I feel bombarded.

It is a cult.

Vegans react when they hear someone express an opinion that is different from their own beliefs. They attack and go ballistic online and make videos saying. ‘Oh my Goodness. Look at this person saying they proudly consume meat, what should we do? We’We are all going to attack! We’re all going to attack because you can’t be a carnivore!’

Now, if you do eat meat and somebody says,’I’m a vegan!,’ most carnivores will say, ’OK, that’s fine. It’s your life, your choice.’

But not with vegans. Those freaks say, ‘I don’t eat meat, and neither should you.’

They are like little princesses to their minds. They all make me mad.

Reddit poster: I believe you need a new girlfriend. If you leave her and you date someone who eats meat, then you’re going to have a way better time.

It’s easy to do. You’ll be reminded that people can go out to eat and not get accosted by a psychopath sitting across from them, yelling at them for eating butter.

I should also note it’s good