Men, don’t listen to the bad advice of marrying a ‘low-IQ’ woman
Why You Shouldn’t Settle for a Less Intelligent Wife
A self-described “Catholic accelerationist” writer on X just earned 2 million views with his hot take on finding a traditional complementarian wife. According to Justin Murphy, men should marry a hot lower-IQ girl from a rural church, someone simple, practical, and faithful. But is this really good advice?
“Men, just marry a hot lower-IQ girl from a rural church, one who is simple and practical and faithful. You don’t need or want impressive opinions about foreign films. “A little retarded but I love ’em” —words spoken by many happy husbands (and many happy wives no less)”
Like Mr. Murphy, I, too, want bachelors to find hot wives. However, deliberately eliminating smart women from your prospects is a mistake. In modern America, finding a hot, faithful wife is already difficult. Imagine the struggle of young men attending competitive colleges, surrounded by attractive and intelligent ladies. Diminishing the value of intelligence in wives is just really bad advice.
Intelligence is an Asset
Intelligence is not the real threat that some men perceive. It’s the bossiness, godlessness, arrogance, and strong focus on career over home and family life that are often found in smart, educated women. Bachelors should consider intelligence as an advantageous trait in a wife, especially for those who have the brains and ambition to make a splash in the world.
Everyone deserves a chance at marital happiness, but young men should think about the consequences of following Murphy’s advice. In the past, very stupid women would have jeopardized their family’s welfare. Particularly in today’s turbulent environment, intelligence is an asset that shouldn’t be overlooked.
Why Wouldn’t You Want an Intelligent Wife?
Running a household well and navigating through life requires brain power. Two non-stupid people will fare better when making important life decisions. Husbands need wives who bring in another perspective and help identify solutions. Intelligence doesn’t always manifest in diplomas or quick mental calculations, but it plays a crucial role in creating a comfortable and enjoyable home life.
Emotional intelligence should also be prized in wives, especially for those who hope to be mothers. Strife arises easily when children and stress are day-to-day realities. Emotional intelligence is correlated with general IQ.
Furthermore, research shows that people of similar intelligence tend to match up with one another. Discouraging the idea of smart, educated women based on stereotypes is unfair. If men start believing that “dumber is better,” it will only limit the dating pool and perpetuate misconceptions about traditional complementarian roles.
Marital happiness is not solely determined by intellectual strength. Faithfulness, good nature, and love are equally important. Women should use their gifts, whether it’s intelligence, kindness, or grace, to serve their families and the world.
So, men, find yourselves hot wives, but don’t let bad internet advice deceive you into thinking that the one you’re most compatible with isn’t just as smart as you are.
How can the ambition and drive of an intelligent woman positively impact a relationship and contribute to a successful marriage?
Onsider intelligence as an asset, rather than a liability, when looking for a wife. Intelligent women bring many benefits to a relationship and can contribute to a fulfilling and successful marriage.
Firstly, intelligent women are great conversationalists. They have a wide range of knowledge and can engage in intellectually stimulating discussions. This can create a stronger emotional connection and make for more interesting and enjoyable conversations with your partner. Having someone who can challenge you intellectually can lead to personal growth and a deeper understanding of the world.
Intelligent women also tend to be ambitious and driven. They have goals and aspirations of their own, which can be inspiring and motivating for their partners. They are more likely to have a strong work ethic and strive for success in their careers. This can lead to a higher household income and financial stability, which is an important factor in a successful marriage.
Moreover, intelligent women often possess critical thinking skills and problem-solving abilities. They can bring fresh perspectives and innovative ideas to both personal and professional challenges. This can lead to effective problem-solving as a couple and the ability to navigate through life’s obstacles together.
In addition, intelligent women are more likely to be well-informed and make wise decisions. They are better equipped to handle various responsibilities, such as managing finances, raising children, and making important family decisions. Their intelligence can contribute to a stable and harmonious family life.
It is important to note that intelligence does not equate to arrogance, as Mr. Murphy implies. Intelligence is simply the ability to learn, understand and apply knowledge. Arrogance and bossiness can be found in individuals regardless of their intelligence level. It is unfair to generalize and assume that all intelligent women possess negative traits.
In conclusion, while finding a hot and faithful wife is important, it is a mistake to deliberately exclude intelligent women from your prospects. Intelligence is an asset that brings numerous benefits to a relationship, including stimulating conversations, ambition, problem-solving skills, and informed decision-making. Instead of settling for a less intelligent wife, men should appreciate and value intelligence in their search for a life partner.
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