{"id":264905,"date":"2021-03-20T13:15:28","date_gmt":"2021-03-20T17:15:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.conservativenewsdaily.net\/breaking-news\/?p=264905"},"modified":"2021-03-20T13:15:31","modified_gmt":"2021-03-20T17:15:31","slug":"prager-the-human-need-to-feel-important-and-how-government-squelches-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.conservativenewsdaily.net\/breaking-news\/prager-the-human-need-to-feel-important-and-how-government-squelches-it\/","title":{"rendered":"PRAGER: The Human Need To Feel Important \u2013 And How Government Squelches It"},"content":{"rendered":"<aside class=\"mashsb-container mashsb-main mashsb-stretched\"><div class=\"mashsb-box\"><div class=\"mashsb-count mash-medium\" style=\"&quot;\"><div class=\"counts mashsbcount\">26<\/div><span class=\"mashsb-sharetext\">SHARES<\/span><\/div><div class=\"mashsb-buttons\"><a class=\"mashicon-facebook mash-medium mash-nomargin mashsb-noshadow\" href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer.php?u=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.conservativenewsdaily.net%2Fbreaking-news%2Fprager-the-human-need-to-feel-important-and-how-government-squelches-it%2F\" target=\"_top\" rel=\"nofollow\"><span class=\"icon\"><\/span><span class=\"text\">Facebook<\/span><\/a><a class=\"mashicon-twitter mash-medium mash-nomargin mashsb-noshadow\" href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=&amp;url=https:\/\/www.conservativenewsdaily.net\/breaking-news\/?p=264905&amp;via=ConservNewsDly\" target=\"_top\" rel=\"nofollow\"><span class=\"icon\"><\/span><span class=\"text\">Twitter<\/span><\/a><a class=\"mashicon-subscribe mash-medium mash-nomargin mashsb-noshadow\" href=\"#\" target=\"_top\" rel=\"nofollow\"><span class=\"icon\"><\/span><span class=\"text\">Subscribe<\/span><\/a><div class=\"onoffswitch2 mash-medium mashsb-noshadow\" style=\"display:none\"><\/div><\/div>\n            <\/div>\n                <div style=\"clear:both\"><\/div><\/aside>\n            <!-- Share buttons by mashshare.net - Version: 4.0.47--><div><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.conservativenewsdaily.net\/breaking-news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/fb_image-2338.jpeg\" class=\"ff-og-image-inserted\" \/><\/div>\n<p>If one were to draw up a list of human needs, food and shelter would be at the top.<\/p>\n<p>With great respect to Freudians, sex would not be No. 2.<\/p>\n<p>The need for meaning would be second only to the need for food.<\/p>\n<p>That meaning is more important to happiness than sex is easily shown. A great many people go long periods without sex, and while many of them miss it, if they have meaning in their lives, they can lead quite happy and fulfilling lives. On the other hand, few people who have regular sex but lack meaning are happy or fulfilled.<\/p>\n<p>Third on the list of human needs is the need to feel important. This need is much less often cited than the need for food, sex and meaning. But it is so important that a case could be made that it is tied for No. 2 with the need for meaning.<\/p>\n<p>The infamous \u201cmidlife crisis\u201d is a crisis of importance: \u201cI thought I would be much more important at this stage in life than I am.\u201d That mostly afflicts men \u2014 just as feeling less important after one\u2019s children have left home afflicts mothers more than fathers.<\/p>\n<p>Among the many psycho-social crises afflicting Americans is a crisis of importance. Fewer Americans feel important than did Americans in the past.<\/p>\n<p>Why? What has happened?<\/p>\n<p>What has happened is a steep decline in the number of institutions that gave people a feeling of importance.<\/p>\n<p>Given that work is generally regarded as one of the most ubiquitous providers of purpose, and that, prior to the COVID-19 lockdown, more Americans were working than ever before, one would think that more Americans than ever before felt important.<\/p>\n<p>It has not turned out that way. For many, work has not provided the sense of importance people expected it to, let alone fulfilled the other great need: for meaning. This is especially true for women, but first, we will address men.<\/p>\n<p>Work used to provide many men with a sense of importance. It is simply a fact that being the breadwinner for a family means one is important. However, since the 1970s and the rise of feminism, women have not only become breadwinners, but they have increasingly become the primary breadwinner within a marriage and for a family. That has helped couples financially, but it has also deprived a great many men of their sense of importance. When regarded by a wife and children as important, husbands\/fathers felt important. Progressive America mocks the 1950s TV series \u201cFather Knows Best.\u201d But when wives and children believed that, men felt important because they were. The price for this, according to feminism, was paid by women, who didn\u2019t receive the accolades of breadwinning. And they set about changing it.<\/p>\n<p>However, contrary to the expectations of the well-educated, women becoming breadwinners has not provided most women with a sense of importance, and certainly not meaning in life. Contrary to what feminism, colleges, high schools, progressive parents and the mass media have claimed for decades, men and women do not have the same natures. Just as sex with many partners does not provide most women with the same satisfaction it provides men, most work does not provide women with the same sense of importance or meaning it provides men. For many women, being the breadwinner is financially beneficial but not especially satisfying. Most women would still like their man to be the primary breadwinner. That\u2019s why very wealthy women so often marry even wealthier men. It is built into female nature.<\/p>\n<p>Moreover, throughout history, work was rarely seen as a primary provider of importance or meaning \u2014 for either sex. Work was little more than a necessity, and the vast majority of people would have happily abandoned their often back-breaking, drudgery-inducing work if they could afford to.<\/p>\n<p>For the most part, people sought \u2014 and found \u2014 importance and meaning outside of work. This was especially true in America, where \u201cassociations\u201d provided both importance and meaning.<\/p>\n<p>Nongovernmental associations, as Alexis de Tocqueville noted in his brilliant analysis of American life in the early 19th century, was the key to Americans\u2019 success and happiness. These included, first and foremost, religious associations and religion in general. Most religious people feel important \u2014 to God, to their community, to their family. My father was the president of our synagogue, and my mother was active in the synagogue\u2019s \u201csisterhood.\u201d Though both worked full time, those roles provided them with immense meaning and sense of importance.<\/p>\n<p>Add to that: Rotary, Kiwanis and Lions clubs; book clubs; the Masons; bowling leagues; coaching Little League; volunteer charitable work; teaching Bible in Sunday school. These provided people with a sense of importance.<\/p>\n<p>The key to all these associations was their being independent of government. As government has grown, nearly all these associations have shrunk. Therefore, we have a rule: The more government intrudes in people\u2019s lives, the less important most people feel \u2014 unless they work for the government.<\/p>\n<p>Yet, to progressives, government is, or should be, almost everything in people\u2019s lives. It should take care of as many people as possible. However, at a massive price: The more one relies on the government, the more one will inevitably lack a sense of importance.<\/p>\n<p>This ideal was announced at the 2012 Democratic Party Convention, when the narrator of a specially-created Barack Obama campaign-theme video asserted, \u201cGovernment is the only thing that we all belong to.\u201d The DNC also showed a fictional storybook ad titled \u201cThe Life of Julia.\u201d It portrayed a woman from childhood to old age, wholly dependent on the government. Despite her having a child, there was not a man anywhere in the story, nor, apparently, was there a man in her life. The result? More and more American women have come to rely on the government, not on a husband. The results have been calamitous.<\/p>\n<p>President Joe Biden repeated this theme last week: \u201cPut trust and faith in our government,\u201d he pleaded with Americans. One could accurately say that we are replacing America\u2019s motto, \u201cIn God We Trust,\u201d with, \u201cIn Government We Trust.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The bigger the government, the fewer the institutions in which people can feel important. Therefore, given the deep human need to feel important, people will look elsewhere for their importance \u2014 like fighting systemic racism, heteronormativity, capitalism, patriarchy and transphobia. And, most of all, global warming \u2014 because you cannot feel more important than when you believe you are saving the world.<\/p>\n<p><i>The views expressed in this opinion piece are the author\u2019s own and do not necessarily represent those of The Daily Wire.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>Dennis Prager is a nationally syndicated radio talk-show host and columnist. His latest book, published by Regnery in May 2019, is \u201cThe Rational Bible,\u201d a commentary on the book of Genesis. His film, \u201cNo Safe Spaces,\u201d was released to home entertainment nationwide on September 15, 2020. He is the founder of Prager University and may be contacted at dennisprager.com.<\/i><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If one were to draw up a list of human needs, food and shelter would be at the top.With great respect to Freudians, sex would not be No. 2.The need &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2310864,"comment_status":"close","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_mo_disable_npp":"","fifu_image_url":"https:\/\/www.conservativenewsdaily.net\/breaking-news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/fb_image-2338.jpeg","fifu_image_alt":"PRAGER: The Human Need To Feel Important \u2013 And How Government Squelches It","footnotes":""},"categories":[],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-264905","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry"],"fifu_image_url":"https:\/\/www.conservativenewsdaily.net\/breaking-news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/fb_image-2338.jpeg","fifu_image_alt":"PRAGER: The Human Need To Feel Important \u2013 And How Government Squelches It","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.conservativenewsdaily.net\/breaking-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/264905","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.conservativenewsdaily.net\/breaking-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.conservativenewsdaily.net\/breaking-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.conservativenewsdaily.net\/breaking-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.conservativenewsdaily.net\/breaking-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=264905"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.conservativenewsdaily.net\/breaking-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/264905\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.conservativenewsdaily.net\/breaking-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2310864"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.conservativenewsdaily.net\/breaking-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=264905"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.conservativenewsdaily.net\/breaking-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=264905"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.conservativenewsdaily.net\/breaking-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=264905"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}