{"id":2251206,"date":"2024-05-23T12:13:01","date_gmt":"2024-05-23T16:13:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.conservativenewsdaily.net\/breaking-news\/kristin-cavallari-the-montana-boyz-and-advice-we-dont-need\/"},"modified":"2024-05-23T12:17:02","modified_gmt":"2024-05-23T16:17:02","slug":"kristin-cavallari-the-montana-boyz-and-advice-we-dont-need","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.conservativenewsdaily.net\/breaking-news\/kristin-cavallari-the-montana-boyz-and-advice-we-dont-need\/","title":{"rendered":"Kristin Cavallari and The Montana Boyz: Unnecessary Advice"},"content":{"rendered":"<aside class=\"mashsb-container mashsb-main mashsb-stretched\"><div class=\"mashsb-box\"><div class=\"mashsb-count mash-medium\" style=\"&quot;\"><div class=\"counts mashsbcount\">16<\/div><span class=\"mashsb-sharetext\">SHARES<\/span><\/div><div class=\"mashsb-buttons\"><a class=\"mashicon-facebook mash-medium mash-nomargin mashsb-noshadow\" href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer.php?u=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.conservativenewsdaily.net%2Fbreaking-news%2Fkristin-cavallari-the-montana-boyz-and-advice-we-dont-need%2F\" target=\"_top\" rel=\"nofollow\"><span class=\"icon\"><\/span><span class=\"text\">Facebook<\/span><\/a><a class=\"mashicon-twitter mash-medium mash-nomargin mashsb-noshadow\" href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=&amp;url=https:\/\/www.conservativenewsdaily.net\/breaking-news\/?p=2251206&amp;via=ConservNewsDly\" target=\"_top\" rel=\"nofollow\"><span class=\"icon\"><\/span><span class=\"text\">Twitter<\/span><\/a><a class=\"mashicon-subscribe mash-medium mash-nomargin mashsb-noshadow\" href=\"#\" target=\"_top\" rel=\"nofollow\"><span class=\"icon\"><\/span><span class=\"text\">Subscribe<\/span><\/a><div class=\"onoffswitch2 mash-medium mashsb-noshadow\" style=\"display:none\"><\/div><\/div>\n            <\/div>\n                <div style=\"clear:both\"><\/div><\/aside>\n            <!-- Share buttons by mashshare.net - Version: 4.0.47--><p>The text discusses \u200dthe spread of harmful\u2063 advice on social media, particularly focusing on Kristin Cavallari and her association with the Montana Boyz TikTok group. It highlights concerns\u200c about inappropriate dating advice shared by Kristin and the negative impact it may have \u2063on her young female\u2063 followers. The article\u2064 critiques her recent podcast episodes and the uncomfortable dynamics\u2062 observed within her new relationship.  <\/p>\n<p class=\"readmore\">\n    <button onclick=\"showReadMore()\" id=\"readmorebtn\">Read more&#8230;<\/button>\n<\/p>\n<hr id=\"line\">\n<span id=\"more\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">There is a lot of terrible advice in the world. It\u2019s all over TikTok, Instagram, and social media in general. Much of this terrible advice comes from people who are far from having their lives together themselves, but what is even more damaging is when the advice comes from an inconsistent source and societal trends, from someone just following whatever people are doing on TikTok. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Nine times out of 10, that kind of advice is just not ever going to be good.<\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_741009\" style=\"width: 381px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\">\n<p id=\"caption-attachment-741009\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Jason Davis\/Getty Images<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Enter: Kristin Cavallari. Kristin is an internet personality who got her start on \u201cLaguna Beach\u201d back in the early 2000s. Now, she has a podcast called \u201cLet\u2019s Be Honest,\u201d and over the years, she\u2019s gained a following of millions. She is a divorced mom of three and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.conservativenewsdaily.net\/breaking-news\/aaron-rodgers-gives-vaccine-spokesman-travis-kelce-a-new-nickname-live-on-espn\/\" title=\"Aaron Rodgers nicknames Travis Kelce during live ESPN interview.\">recently started dating<\/a> a 24-year-old TikToker who seems to have made all the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.conservativenewsdaily.net\/breaking-news\/cnn-finally-discovers-china-uses-u-s-media-to-attack-the-united-states\/\" title=\"CNN Finally Discovers China Uses U.S. Media To Attack The United States\">common sense<\/a> she might have had fly right out the window. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">So why is this worth calling attention to? Because she is sharing this lack of common sense with her 4.8 million primarily young female fans. <\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_741011\" style=\"width: 252px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\">\n<p id=\"caption-attachment-741011\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Screenshot: Instagram.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">The story publicly began on March 28 when she posted a picture with Mark Estes on her Instgram with the caption \u201cHim <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\ud83e\udd0d<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201d. Mark is a member of the Montana Boyz (<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@montana.boyz?lang=en\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">@montana.boyz<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">) \u2014 emphasis on <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">boyz<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">  with a \u201cz\u201d \u2014 a TikTok group who makes Western-ish thirst trap videos. Before he started dating Kristin, no one had ever even seen his face before because he always wore his hat pulled way down over his eyes. (Seriously, I did not know what this man looked like.)<\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_741017\" style=\"width: 417px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\">\n<p id=\"caption-attachment-741017\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Screenshot: Instagram<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">They had <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@montana.boyz\/video\/7256499155865029931?lang=en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">some videos<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">  that went viral, all of which show them walking to the camera in a line while they lip sync, like the one they did before the <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@montana.boyz\/video\/7357065071383547182?lang=en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">CMT Awards<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">. They lip sync, they walk around, and they just exist as attractive 20-something-year-old guys. They have millions upon millions of views, so plenty of girls are loving this content \u2014 but these guys also get absolutely roasted online, which I\u2019m sure they know because it is objectively hysterical that this is how they have gotten famous. <\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_741013\" style=\"width: 874px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\">\n<p id=\"caption-attachment-741013\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Kevin Mazur\/Getty Images for CMT<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Mark and Kristin hit it off and started \u201changing out\u201d earlier this year. Around that time, Kristin came out with a dating hot take <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=kHIFDLjzUCA\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">on her podcast<\/a> telling her listeners that it does not matter when you sleep with a man: <\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><em><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">I don\u2019t think it matters. It doesn\u2019t matter if you sleep with him the first date or the 10th date. If there is chemistry and feelings there, it doesn\u2019t matter. Ninety percent of couples who are in like the best relationships where they like found the one all slept together.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">First of all, Kristin is 37-years-old; she shouldn\u2019t be \u201changing out\u201d with a guy. Second, \u201cchemistry and feelings\u201d will only get you so far. Obviously, it\u2019s important that those exist in a relationship, but they should not be the foundation. Shared values and respect are what make for a long haul. She apparently used to care and was on a \u201cmake him wait\u201d thing for the past few years, but then something or <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">someone <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">caused that mentality to just disappear. The majority of her followers were not enthused about any of this and the comments proved it, citing this as some of the \u201cabsolute worst advice\u201d for young females.<\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_741063\" style=\"width: 429px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\">\n<p id=\"caption-attachment-741063\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Screenshot: Instagram<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">For Kristin\u2019s 4.<a href=\"https:\/\/www.conservativenewsdaily.net\/breaking-news\/youtube-temporarily-demonetizes-beauty-influencer-after-he-admits-sending-sexually-explicit-messages-to-two-16-year-old-boys\/\" title=\"YouTube Temporarily Demonetizes Beauty Influencer After He Admits Sending Sexually Explicit Messages To Two 16-Year-Old Boys\">8 million followers<\/a>, the majority of whom are young women, this is not the advice they need to be hearing. It\u2019s not healthy \u2014 far from it. The comments on this clip continued, with some women laying down hard facts and others sharing thoughts on sleeping around, saying, \u201cYou\u2019re absolutely damaging yourself if you sleep around.\u201d That comment was definitely not in the minority. Call it soul ties, call it pair bonding, call it what you want, but whatever it is, it is real. That type of connection is rooted in our biology.<\/span><\/p>\n<h4><a href=\"https:\/\/www.dailywire.com\/episode\/kristin-cavallari-needs-to-stop-giving-dating-advice\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>WATCH: The Comments Section with Brett Cooper<\/strong><\/a><\/h4>\n<div id=\"attachment_741065\" style=\"width: 414px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\">\n<p id=\"caption-attachment-741065\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Screenshot: Instagram<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"attachment_741071\" style=\"width: 445px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\">\n<p id=\"caption-attachment-741071\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Screenshot: Instagram<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Of course, there were a few people who were shocked by these \u201cbackwards\u201d comments, as they say, but they were the ones in the actual minority. I had to do some serious searching to find them. One commented they should be able to do whatever they want:<\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_741073\" style=\"width: 450px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\">\n<p id=\"caption-attachment-741073\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Screenshot: Instagram<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Yet nobody is saying they can\u2019t. In fact, none of the commenters said this wasn\u2019t allowed or that hookup culture is illegal. It\u2019s a free country. But what they were arguing in good faith is that this is unhealthy behavior and an unhealthy mindset. Plus, just because you <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">can <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">do something does not mean that you <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">should <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">do something. (Those are words worth living by.) And that\u2019s not a difficult concept to grasp.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">That said, I have friends who have waited until marriage and have the greatest of marriages. I also have friends who slept together on the first date, are married, and are madly in love. But those personal anecdotes do not change the facts about the response that sex causes in our bodies and the real consequences and risks that come along with it. The fact is that there are risks to engaging in sex, all of which are critical to making informed decisions. Decisions should never be made because someone said \u201cit doesn\u2019t matter\u201d or because \u201cit\u2019s empowering.\u201d Those are subjective points. The objective, chemical facts prove different.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">After Kristin announced her and Mark\u2019s relationship in March, the clip from January\u2019s podcast episode likely started to make a little more sense to her fans: Kristin wanted to show Mark that she was a cool, chill girl. She could be fine with all of this. She must not have considered that you can be a chill girl and also set healthy boundaries and have some self-respect \u2014 which she especially should have done, being a mother of three.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Then came the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=hsM6bn4w9qw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">podcast episode<\/a> where Kristin had the whole Montana Boyz group on her podcast. <\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_741057\" style=\"width: 499px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\">\n<p id=\"caption-attachment-741057\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Screenshot: Let\u2019s Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari podcast.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">This episode was full of cringe-worthy, uncomfortable conversations, one of which centered around settling down. According to one of the boyz, people older than them have told them not to settle down, that they should wait. Though that is simply just the wrong way to look at a relationship, two of the three declared they definitely don\u2019t want to settle down right now \u2014 but they aren\u2019t sure about Mark, <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Kristin\u2019s boyfriend<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">. The Montana boy continues, saying they \u201cdefinitely have some personal goals that we want to reach. So it\u2019s kind of tough to do that when you\u2019re locked down and you\u2019re focusing on a relationship.\u201d All this is said with Mark and Kristin sitting right next to each other.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">As if this saga needed any more help getting everyone\u2019s attention, it gets better (or worse). Kristin asks, \u201cBut what if you met your dream girl?\u201d Now, that is a conversation that should not be had on this podcast. It is one they should have, but together off camera. Mark is put under all kinds of pressure in this episode, which, arguably, he signed up for since he entered into this relationship. But that question \u2014 what if you met your dream girl? \u2014 is clearly a subtweet at her three-month-old relationship. She basically asked, \u201cIs it me?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">This clip was all over the place with people reacting and begging her to stop. It\u2019s just all so uncomfortable, especially considering that she threw caution to the wind to look like the hot, chill, cool, older woman in order to land him in the first place. The comments ranged from calling out Kristin desperately wanting Mark to say he wants to settle down to the other guys secretly telling Kristin that she\u2019s not Mark\u2019s end game.<\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_741079\" style=\"width: 422px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\">\n<p id=\"caption-attachment-741079\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Screenshot: Instagram<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"attachment_741081\" style=\"width: 422px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\">\n<p id=\"caption-attachment-741081\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Screenshot: Instagram<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">And one mom had a brilliant and hilarious comparison:<\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_741087\" style=\"width: 511px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\">\n<p id=\"caption-attachment-741087\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Screenshot: Instagram<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">None of them should be giving advice, Kristin included. And just when it seemed the situation could not get any more cringe, it did. Mark has said he wants kids. That\u2019s not the cringe part; this <a href=\"https:\/\/www.conservativenewsdaily.net\/breaking-news\/nothing-about-this-election-seems-to-add-up-the-liberty-loft\/\" title=\"Nothing about this election seems to add up | The Liberty Loft\">makes sense<\/a> since he\u2019s 24-years-old and does not have children yet. The cringe part is: Kristin is mulling it over. She is considering what having a child with Mark the Montana Boy would look like, especially since she already has three kids. So while he could not even make eye contact with Kristin on her podcast when she asked him about settling down if he met his dream girl, she\u2019s considering having his child. She really just shouldn\u2019t push it. We should all just say \u2014 her included \u2014 that she\u2019s just having fun because that\u2019s how we\u2019re all viewing this.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Obviously, Mark doesn\u2019t have much to lose because he is 24-years-old. Kristin, however, is a mom. She has three children to consider (who she has already introduced to Mr. Montana, by the way). If she really does want more children, the clock is ticking. She needs to be serious and not waste time with him based on an infatuation period.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">And while this may seem like online, reality TV drama, there is a point: The way you choose a partner and approach relationships should be rooted in something other than infatuation. It could be rooted in your faith, a core set of values, or <a href=\"https:\/\/www.conservativenewsdaily.net\/breaking-news\/leaked-teacher-training-video-shows-how-cultish-critical-race-theory-is-being-pushed-on-virginia-teachers\/\" title=\"Leaked Teacher Training Video Shows How Cultish Critical Race Theory Is Being Pushed On Virginia Teachers\">pure common sense<\/a>, all of which will protect you and hold you accountable. But to publicly throw caution to the wind and common sense out the window because you want to hook up with someone to get their attention? In the end, that will never work out.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bad advice saturates social media platforms like TikTok and Instagram, often from unreliable sources. 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