{"id":2052844,"date":"2023-10-02T17:43:02","date_gmt":"2023-10-02T21:43:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.conservativenewsdaily.net\/breaking-news\/the-red-pilled-right-says-men-shouldnt-get-married-theyre-wrong\/"},"modified":"2023-10-02T17:47:46","modified_gmt":"2023-10-02T21:47:46","slug":"the-red-pilled-right-says-men-shouldnt-get-married-theyre-wrong","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.conservativenewsdaily.net\/breaking-news\/the-red-pilled-right-says-men-shouldnt-get-married-theyre-wrong\/","title":{"rendered":"Red-Pilled Right: Men shouldn&#8217;t marry, but they&#8217;re mistaken."},"content":{"rendered":"<aside class=\"mashsb-container mashsb-main mashsb-stretched\"><div class=\"mashsb-box\"><div class=\"mashsb-count mash-medium\" style=\"float:left\"><div class=\"counts mashsbcount\">16<\/div><span class=\"mashsb-sharetext\">SHARES<\/span><\/div><div class=\"mashsb-buttons\"><a class=\"mashicon-facebook mash-medium mash-nomargin mashsb-noshadow\" href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer.php?u=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.conservativenewsdaily.net%2Fbreaking-news%2Fthe-red-pilled-right-says-men-shouldnt-get-married-theyre-wrong%2F\" target=\"_top\" rel=\"nofollow\"><span class=\"icon\"><\/span><span class=\"text\">Facebook<\/span><\/a><a class=\"mashicon-twitter mash-medium mash-nomargin mashsb-noshadow\" href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=&amp;url=https:\/\/www.conservativenewsdaily.net\/breaking-news\/?p=2052844&amp;via=ConservNewsDly\" target=\"_top\" rel=\"nofollow\"><span class=\"icon\"><\/span><span class=\"text\">Twitter<\/span><\/a><a class=\"mashicon-subscribe mash-medium mash-nomargin mashsb-noshadow\" href=\"#\" target=\"_top\" rel=\"nofollow\"><span class=\"icon\"><\/span><span class=\"text\">Subscribe<\/span><\/a><div class=\"onoffswitch2 mash-medium mashsb-noshadow\" style=\"display:none\"><\/div><\/div>\n            <\/div>\n                <div style=\"clear:both\"><\/div><\/aside>\n            <!-- Share buttons by mashshare.net - Version: 4.0.47--><h2>A Debate\u200b on the\u200d Value of Marriage<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">There&#8217;s a heated discussion brewing on the\u200c Right \u200cregarding the worth of marriage. Some individuals on the so-called &#8220;red-pilled&#8221; Right are now arguing that marriage is detrimental to men and they should\u2063 avoid it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Their case is not the typical liberal feminist argument that portrays \u200dmen as useless\u2064 and unnecessary,\u2062 claiming that women don&#8217;t need men like fish don&#8217;t \u2064need bicycles. Instead, they argue that the\u200d dynamics\u200d of marriage have changed due to factors such\u2063 as no-fault \u2064divorce, custody arrangements, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.conservativenewsdaily.net\/breaking-news\/federal-suspect-hunter-biden-forced-to-downgrade-to-15800-per-month-house-with-mesmerizing-ocean-views-report\/\" title=\"Hunter Biden, a federal suspect, compelled to move to a ,800-per-month house with captivating ocean views, according to reports.\">child support \u2063payments<\/a>, and spousal support.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">I agree with\u200d the criticism of these policies. No-fault divorce is a \u200cdisaster, and the biased child custody\u2062 arrangements are\u200c a serious problem.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">However, \u200bthe &#8220;red-pilled&#8221; Right takes it a \u2063step further by advising young men \u200cnot \u2064to get\u200c married, deeming it too\u200c risky.\u200d But that&#8217;s a foolish notion.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Pearl Davis, an anti-feminist,\u2064 argues that men have \u200dno way to have \u2064children who are truly their own \u200cdue to\u2063 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.conservativenewsdaily.net\/breaking-news\/the-red-pilled-right-says-men-shouldnt-get-married-theyre-wrong\/\" title=\"Red-Pilled Right: Men shouldn't marry, but they're mistaken.\">biased court decisions favoring women<\/a> in \u200ccustody battles.\u200c She\u200c highlights that \u2064only wealthy men have the resources to fight against this\u2063 injustice.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Davis criticizes those who advocate for changing the\u200d laws and \u2064holding women accountable for failed marriages, but she also \u200bsuggests that men should find a religiously devout partner\u200d and get married.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">She states, &#8220;I had this\u200d thought, too, until I found a Muslim girl that did the same thing. I found a Christian girl that did the same thing;\u200b I found a Catholic girl. It\u2019s\u2063 happening all over, whether you want to believe\u2063 it or not, it is happening. I don\u2019t care\u200b about your religion.\u200c I don\u2019t care about your church. This happens\u2063 everywhere.&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Her argument \u2062against these \u200bmarital\u2064 policies is valid. Nobody is dismissing\u2062 the pain experienced by men who have been \u200bunjustly victimized \u200din these circumstances \u2062where the system is stacked against them. That is undeniably true.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">However,\u200d the benefits of marriage are still extraordinary. It does matter who you marry. To claim that there is no difference in the character of the person you marry is simply untrue. The person \u200byou choose\u200d as your spouse can significantly mitigate the risk of divorce.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Throwing away the entire institution of marriage is not the solution. Instead, we should revise \u2063the laws while encouraging men to find a suitable \u2064partner and \u2064marry \u200cthem.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">If that requires moving away \u200dfrom state-mandated laws and towards contractual \u200carrangements, so be it. I \u2062agree with many \u200dof the criticisms of current marriage laws. The problem arises when we suggest that men should avoid marriage\u2062 altogether, as it \u2063leads to unintended consequences\u200c where unmarried men become a threat to society.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><a href=\"https:\/\/www.dailywire.com\/episode\/ep-1819-idiot-congressman-pulls-fire-alarm-member-exclusive\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">WATCH: \u200dThe Ben Shapiro\u2062 Show<\/a><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">The reality is that men channel their aggressive drives towards either \u200dconstructive\u2063 or destructive\u200b endeavors. The Left desires a society \u2064where both men and women remain unmarried. By accepting this, we undermine the very foundation of society that allows for growth and\u200c progress beyond leftist principles.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Marriage is undoubtedly \u200da risk, and \u2062currently, men bear\u2062 a disproportionate share of that risk. However, \u200cis the\u2063 reward worth\u2064 the\u200d risk?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">In the vast majority of cases where both individuals are committed and share common values, the answer is a resounding yes.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">With the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.conservativenewsdaily.net\/breaking-news\/the-matrix-resurrections-release-sparks-debate-over-what-taking-the-red-pill-really-means\/\" title=\"\u2018The Matrix: Resurrections\u2019 Release Sparks Debate Over What \u2018Taking The Red Pill\u2019 Really Means\">red pill movement<\/a>, the diagnosis often hits the mark, but the proposed \u2064solution misses it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Interestingly, there is actually \u200ba formula for a \u200dsuccessful marriage. It\u200c involves being conservative, religious, and highly educated. Seventy-seven percent \u200bof college-educated conservative parents are still\u2063 in their\u200c first marriage.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">In the community where \u200bI reside, \u2062an Orthodox Jewish community, divorce rates are \u200dremarkably low. Why? Because everyone is\u200d deeply committed to their religious \u2063beliefs, viewing\u200c marriage as a sacred bond that truly \u2064matters. Additionally, people don&#8217;t date solely for physical pleasure; they date with the intention \u2064of building a future together and having children.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Marriage is undoubtedly a risk, but is\u200b it merely a flip of\u2063 a coin?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">No, it&#8217;s\u2064 a decision that <a href=\"https:\/\/www.conservativenewsdaily.net\/breaking-news\/utah-bill-barring-transgender-surgeries-for-children-is-toothless\/\" title=\"Utah Bill Barring Transgender Surgeries For Children Is Toothless\">requires careful consideration<\/a>.\u2064 What kind \u200cof person do you want to date? What\u2064 kind of relationship do you \u2064want \u2064to build? How seriously \u2064do you take the commitment?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Do\u2062 the laws need to\u200d change?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Absolutely.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Should \u2063men get married?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Absolutely.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/onelink.to\/dwapp\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">CLICK HERE TO GET THE DAILY \u200cWIRE APP<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p> <\/p>\n<h2> What \u2064actions \u2064can society take \u200dto promote healthy\u2063 and equitable \u2062relationships\u2064 and encourage \u2063young individuals to enter\u2064 into \u2064meaningful marriages<\/h2>\n<p><span>  H, stability, and the raising of future generations.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Marriage provides a framework for\u200d individuals to \u200bform deep emotional connections, build families, and contribute \u2062to the\u200c betterment of \u200dsociety as a \u200cwhole. Numerous studies \u200chave \u200bshown that \u200cmarried individuals \u2064tend to be happier, \u200chealthier, and\u200b more financially stable than their unmarried counterparts. They also exhibit lower rates of substance\u2062 abuse and criminal\u200d behavior.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">In\u2062 addition, marriage provides \u200da stable environment for children to\u200c thrive and grow. Research \u2064consistently shows that children raised in \u200ca\u2063 two-parent household fare better academically, emotionally, and socially compared \u200bto those raised in single-parent or <a href=\"https:\/\/www.conservativenewsdaily.net\/breaking-news\/following-backlash-over-racist-comments-san-francisco-school-board-commissioner-votes-to-admonish-herself\/\" title=\"Following Backlash Over \u201cRacist\u201d Comments, San Francisco School Board Commissioner Votes to \u201cAdmonish\u201d Herself\">unstable family environments<\/a>. Marriage encourages parental commitment, shared responsibilities, and provides\u200c children with a sense\u200c of security and stability that is crucial for their development.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">It is undeniable that marriage has faced challenges \u200din recent\u2062 decades.\u2062 No-fault\u2063 divorce \u2062and biased custody arrangements have created situations that are unfair and detrimental to some individuals, particularly \u2062men. However, \u200bthe solution lies in reforming\u2063 these policies\u200d and\u2064 addressing the underlying issues,\u200d not abandoning the institution \u2062of marriage altogether.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Rather than advising men to avoid marriage, society should \u2063promote healthy and equitable relationships. This includes\u2062 advocating for changes\u200d in\u2062 the legal system\u2062 to ensure fairness in divorce \u200dand custody proceedings. It is \u200calso \u200dessential to educate both men and women\u2062 about the \u200bresponsibilities \u2064and\u200c challenges that come with marriage, as \u200cwell as the importance of mutual\u2063 respect and communication\u2064 in \u2062maintaining a successful partnership.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Furthermore, instead of perpetuating a narrative that vilifies marriage, we should emphasize the benefits and values \u200dit brings \u2064to individuals and society. Encouraging young men to seek compatible partners\u200d and enter into meaningful marriages can provide them with emotional\u200b support, companionship, and a sense of purpose.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">In conclusion, while there are legitimate \u200ccriticisms of \u200bcertain aspects\u200d of marriage, it is crucial to recognize\u2062 the immense value that marriage holds\u200b for individuals and society as a whole. Rather than\u2064 dismissing it as too risky or outdated, efforts should be directed towards reforming laws\u200c and promoting healthy, equitable relationships. By doing so, we can harness the \u2064power of \u200dmarriage to foster\u200d personal happiness, family stability, and societal progress.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>debate has emerged among conservatives regarding the merits of marriage. Some individuals on the &#8220;red-pilled&#8221; Right argue against men getting married, claiming it is detrimental for them. However, their argument differs from the feminist perspective that portrays men as worthless and awful.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":161,"featured_media":2052845,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_mo_disable_npp":"","fifu_image_url":"https:\/\/cndimages.nyc3.digitaloceanspaces.com\/breaking-news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/IMG_2758-scaled-1.jpg","fifu_image_alt":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[541],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2052844","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-the-daily-wire"],"fifu_image_url":"https:\/\/cndimages.nyc3.digitaloceanspaces.com\/breaking-news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/IMG_2758-scaled-1.jpg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.conservativenewsdaily.net\/breaking-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2052844","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.conservativenewsdaily.net\/breaking-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.conservativenewsdaily.net\/breaking-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.conservativenewsdaily.net\/breaking-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/161"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.conservativenewsdaily.net\/breaking-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2052844"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.conservativenewsdaily.net\/breaking-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2052844\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.conservativenewsdaily.net\/breaking-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2052845"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.conservativenewsdaily.net\/breaking-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2052844"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.conservativenewsdaily.net\/breaking-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2052844"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.conservativenewsdaily.net\/breaking-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2052844"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}