{"id":1634718,"date":"2022-09-07T03:02:48","date_gmt":"2022-09-07T07:02:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.conservativenewsdaily.net\/breaking-news\/?p=1634718"},"modified":"2022-09-07T03:03:04","modified_gmt":"2022-09-07T07:03:04","slug":"dignity-prevails-in-netflixs-love-on-the-spectrum","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.conservativenewsdaily.net\/breaking-news\/dignity-prevails-in-netflixs-love-on-the-spectrum\/","title":{"rendered":"Dignity Prevails In Netflix\u2019s \u2018Love On The Spectrum\u2019"},"content":{"rendered":"<aside class=\"mashsb-container mashsb-main mashsb-stretched\"><div class=\"mashsb-box\"><div class=\"mashsb-count mash-medium\" style=\"&quot;\"><div class=\"counts mashsbcount\">16<\/div><span class=\"mashsb-sharetext\">SHARES<\/span><\/div><div class=\"mashsb-buttons\"><a class=\"mashicon-facebook mash-medium mash-nomargin mashsb-noshadow\" href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer.php?u=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.conservativenewsdaily.net%2Fbreaking-news%2Fdignity-prevails-in-netflixs-love-on-the-spectrum%2F\" target=\"_top\" rel=\"nofollow\"><span class=\"icon\"><\/span><span class=\"text\">Facebook<\/span><\/a><a class=\"mashicon-twitter mash-medium mash-nomargin mashsb-noshadow\" href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=&amp;url=https:\/\/www.conservativenewsdaily.net\/breaking-news\/?p=1634718&amp;via=ConservNewsDly\" target=\"_top\" rel=\"nofollow\"><span class=\"icon\"><\/span><span class=\"text\">Twitter<\/span><\/a><a class=\"mashicon-subscribe mash-medium mash-nomargin mashsb-noshadow\" href=\"#\" target=\"_top\" rel=\"nofollow\"><span class=\"icon\"><\/span><span class=\"text\">Subscribe<\/span><\/a><div class=\"onoffswitch2 mash-medium mashsb-noshadow\" style=\"display:none\"><\/div><\/div>\n            <\/div>\n                <div style=\"clear:both\"><\/div><\/aside>\n            <!-- Share buttons by mashshare.net - Version: 4.0.47--><p>A recently published <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sciencedaily.com\/releases\/2022\/02\/220209112107.htm#:~:text=A%20routine%20prenatal%20ultrasound%20can%20identify%20early%20signs%20of%20autism%2C%20study%20finds,-Date%3A%20February%209&amp;text=Summary%3A,a%20new%20study%20has%20found.\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">study<\/a> could end up encouraging more expecting families to conduct prenatal testing for autism and might, unfortunately, lead to an uptick in abortions. There is already a <a href=\"https:\/\/thelifeinstitute.net\/info\/down-syndrome-and-abortion-the-facts\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">devastating<\/a> number of children aborted after they are diagnosed with Down syndrome in the womb; autism testing could lead to a similar trend. While one of the paper\u2019s authors noted that \u201cearlier detection means better treatment,\u201d we know it also means more destruction of so-called \u201cimperfect\u201d human life.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>But imperfection <em>is<\/em> life, and one of the best places to see those living their best life with autism is the American version of the popular TV show \u201cLove on the Spectrum.\u201d The reality show documents the first-time dating experiences of individuals living with autism, featuring people on both very low and high ends of the spectrum.\u00a0It invites viewers into a world they may know little about, revealing tender idiosyncrasies about the full lives of each character.<\/p>\n<p>Episodes bounce back and forth between individual stories, where viewers meet at least one significant friend or family member in the main character\u2019s home life. These are often parents, as the individuals featured aren\u2019t usually living on their own. Most haven\u2019t dated before but are eager to find love and share their lives with someone. We are, after all, created by God with a natural desire for lifelong partnership, and that\u2019s no different for those with autism.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Living with autism means finding \u201cthe one\u201d may not be as easy as online dating or finding a mate through friends or work, though.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>The benefit of the show is its ability to find and match people with others on the spectrum. This is achieved through online dating apps, speed dating, or other means arranged by the show\u2019s producers. Viewers viscerally feel the nervous anticipation of first date jitters, the palpable awkwardness of new conversations, and the familiar anguish of telling \u2014 or being told \u2014 that someone isn\u2019t interested in a second or third date.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Sweet moments of connection \u2014 like when two characters bond over their autism \u2014 accompany difficult interactions when personalities clash. Authentic vulnerability, something those with autism display clearly, is the magic that carries the show. Characters become beloved friends through the screen, and viewers develop attachments while hoping their favorite couples last.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Google shows people regularly searching to discover if certain couples are still together or for the fate of characters who weren\u2019t so lucky in love. Some of the most heartwarming pieces of the show are the hopes and joys of parents who have walked with their autistic children through the heartbreaking moments of a world that is cruel and unfair to those who are different.<\/p>\n<p>After her daughter\u2019s first successful first date, the mother of Abbey from season three elatedly proclaimed, \u201cI\u2019m already planning the wedding!\u201d Her mother was kidding, but a year later, the couple is still together, and such a sentiment may become reality.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Showcasing their experiences brings dignity to those often cast aside by society, who have suffered bullying as children, or simply have a tough time relating to a neuro-typical world. While many aren\u2019t intimately familiar with autism in their personal lives, watching \u201cLove on the Spectrum\u201d has sparked <a href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/LoveOnTheSpectrumShow\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">conversations online<\/a> about it.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>In America magazine, Matthew P. Schneider <a href=\"https:\/\/www.americamagazine.org\/politics-society\/2022\/04\/29\/autism-abortion-prenatal-testing-242895\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">wrote<\/a> about a study in Taiwan, which asked parents of autistic children about the prenatal diagnosis of autism in the future, and a staggering 53 percent said they would choose abortion. Given what we know about many prenatal tests \u2014 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2022\/01\/01\/upshot\/pregnancy-birth-genetic-testing.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">that they are often wrong<\/a> \u2014 this result becomes even scarier.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u201cLove on the Spectrum\u201d gives those with autism a voice and a deeper identity, one layered with passions, personal struggles, and dreams. It\u2019s hard to say if autism is <a href=\"https:\/\/www.scientificamerican.com\/article\/the-real-reasons-autism-rates-are-up-in-the-u-s\/#:~:text=The%20latest%20estimate%20of%20autism,the%20network%20site%20in%20Wisconsin.\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">growing<\/a> or if physicians can more accurately diagnose it, but more families are dealing with it today than ever before.<\/p>\n<p>Regardless, promoting awareness, compassion, and resources is a net positive. In the case of neurodivergence or other atypical conditions such as Down syndrome, inclusivity and compassion are both of vital importance. When you get to know people, you can\u2019t help but recognize their human dignity. Too often, the obviously different aren\u2019t represented in mainstream society.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>While \u201cLove on the Spectrum\u201d has received some criticism for <a href=\"https:\/\/www.spectrumnews.org\/opinion\/reviews\/review-love-on-the-spectrum-is-kind-but-unrepresentative\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">infantilizing<\/a> characters on the show and for allegedly \u201cbeing scripted,\u201d most of the feedback is positive.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>After watching all three seasons available in full, I walked away knowing a bit more about autism and the loveable people who live with it. Looking back over my life, I began to recognize people I\u2019ve encountered that were likely on the spectrum, and our interactions make more sense now. Shows like this will help others identify these extraordinary individuals in their own lives and appreciate them for who God made them to be.\u00a0<\/p>\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\" \/>\n<div class=\"article-author-description fst-italic\">\n  Ericka Andersen Sylvester is a freelance writer and digital consultant. 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