Spanberger Won’t Condemn Sympathetic Emails To Sex Offender
The article discusses Virginia Democratic gubernatorial candidate Abigail Spanberger’s evasive stance on allowing transgender-identifying males, including sex offenders, access to women’s bathrooms, locker rooms, and sports teams. Despite repeated questioning, Spanberger has avoided giving a clear position, rather deferring decisions to individuals and school districts. The issue gained attention after an Arlington School Board permitted a registered male sex offender, Richard Kenneth Cox, who identifies as a woman, to use girls’ pool locker rooms. Emails revealed that a school board candidate showed sympathy towards Cox’s desire to be included as part of the community. Spanberger’s spokeswoman condemned Cox as a predator but did not directly answer whether Spanberger supports policies that would prevent such access. In contrast, Republican candidate Winsome Earle-Sears openly supports policies upholding the separation of sexes for safety. The article criticizes Spanberger for her lack of clarity and suggests a clear policy would protect children from potential predators.
If you want to see Democrat Virginia gubernatorial candidate Abigail Spanberger dance, ask her opinion about allowing men in women’s bathrooms, locker rooms, and sports teams. She has been tap-dancing around a straight answer for weeks. In a recent debate, when pressed, she said the decision is up to individuals and school districts.
Abigail Spanberger voted for the so-called Equality Act. That vote says a grown man can walk naked into your daughter’s locker room and if she’s uncomfortable, she’s the problem.
Virginia, ours daughters are not the problem, politicians like Abigail are. pic.twitter.com/E6sNdnnPsW
— Winsome Earle-Sears (@winwithwinsome) October 9, 2025
A political gift in the news should have made it much easier for Spanberger to find clarity.
An Arlington School Board allowed a sex offender to shower and dress in the girls’ pool locker room last year, WJLA TV’s Nick Minock reported on Thursday. As with many public schools, the pool and facilities are open to the public outside school hours. He also revealed that a current Arlington School Board member, when running for her school board position, had an empathetic email exchange with a male sex offender who used girls’ spaces at Arlington schools.
The Federalist asked Spanberger in an email if she supports trans-identifying, male sex offenders showering with young girls? And does she condemn the sympathetic emails between the sex offender and a school board member candidate?
Republican candidate Winsome Earle-Sears knows her position and is not ashamed to say it out loud: “Girls are girls, and boys are boys.” She will support policies that promote the separation of the sexes in sports and private areas.
🚨 It’s time for the insanity to stop. Girls are girls. Boys are boys. And punishing young men for speaking up about their discomfort is not normal. pic.twitter.com/EneF7YI3F9
— Winsome Earle-Sears (@winwithwinsome) August 20, 2025
‘Community’ Shower
Richard Kenneth Cox, 58, a tier 3 registered sex offender since 1998 — a dude suffering from male pattern baldness — claimed to be a woman, and the school district policy was to let him into the girls’ areas. Then he complained that his experience was not inclusive enough.
Minock obtained emails between Cox and then-school board candidate Kathleen Clark, who was running for election at the time.
“Transgender people including minors are disproportionately homeless and use places like the County swimming pools to shower,” Cox reportedly wrote. “But let me be clear that this is not the only an opportunity to be clean but to be and feel part of the community. However, solely because of complaints of a transgender person in the locker room, Washington Liberty Swimming Pool made a rule that people using the shower but not the pool must use the single, isolated locker room away from everyone else, like they are some kind of freak or something. … [B]ut I did not want to feel isolated, I wanted to feel like part of the community.”
As a rule of thumb, the shower is generally the wrong place for anyone to look for community. Just lather, rinse, and get out.
According to the emails, Clark offered Cox a sympathetic ear and told him the pool staff needed more training.
Still Dancing
Spanberger spokeswoman Libby Wiet refused to condemn the then-candidate’s exchange of sympathetic emails with sex offender Richard Kenneth Cox. In fact, Spanberger’s office sidestepped the issue entirely when responding to The Federalist’s inquiry.
For a lot of people, there is a straightforward answer to the question, ”Do you support trans-identifying, male sex offenders showing with young girls?” The answer is a hard “No.”
But Spanberger had her spokeswoman answer The Federalist with her trademark fogginess.
“Convicted sex offender Richard Cox is a predator who should be in jail — and that’s exactly where he is,” Wiet said in an email. “Abigail is a parent of three daughters in Virginia public schools and a former federal law enforcement officer who went after child predators — nothing is more important to her than the safety of Virginia’s kids. As Governor, Abigail will work with state and local law enforcement officers to keep Virginia kids safe and make sure sex offenders are prevented from preying on children and are prosecuted for their crimes.”
Yeah, no. Spangerger still didn’t answer the question, so The Federalist asked again, and this time gave her an even easier way to answer: multiple choice.
“Will she keep men out of women’s spaces? Yes or no?”
Spangerger’s office provided no answer. Spanberger is apparently not sure where she stands yet, even if a simple policy change would keep sex offenders — those charged and the yet-undiscovered creeps — away from members of the opposite sex.
Beth Brelje is an elections correspondent for The Federalist. She is an award-winning investigative journalist with decades of media experience.
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